Quit looking at what other people are doing, or not doing. It doesn’t matter. You cannot control anyone, but yourself. Instead of complaining about others, tearing others down, and gossiping about others, why don’t you focus your attention, energy, passion, and life, towards becoming someone to follow? Instead of focusing on everyone and everything else, their flaws, failures, and stupidity, why don’t you focus on what you need to work on? YOUR flaws, failures, and stupidity!? Focus on becoming a person you want others to become. Focus on being someone to follow. Focus on the internal work that you need to take care of within your own personal life, rather than focusing on all the external work within other people’s lives, in which you have no control over and can do nothing about! How about you begin today in becoming someone to follow?